fuckglossier:

fuckglossier:

that part about needing to comfort someone after performing some form of bdsm is one of the main reasons why i hate bdsm so much like obviously i can’t stop anyone from doing what they’re into but fuck lmao it’s not normal

like the entire concept of ‘’aftercare’’ is so fucked up to me like there are some forms of bdsm that include literal torture but i guess it’s fine if you get comforted by your partner after you’re done having sex with them lol there should be no need for aftercare… there should be no need for torture to begin with