Rule 1 of not being an asshole ally to trans people is to not act like โmaleโ is one gender and โtrans maleโ is a separate one. We say โcis menโ when differentiating from trans men.
Rule 2: YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL FOR DATING TRANS PEOPLE. PEOPLE OF ALL SEXUAL ORIENTATIONS HAVE ALWAYS DATED TRANS PEOPLE. LESBIANS DATE TRANS PEOPLE, GAY MEN DO, STRAIGHT PEOPLE DO, BISEXUALS DO. STOP LYING TO TRANS PEOPLE ABOUT WHO THEY CAN BE ATTRACTIVE TO, YOU FUCKING GROOMING CHASERS.
This is 2019. Pansexuals never left their fetishism behind.
This was fucking YESTERDAY: 8 June, 2019
The 2003 definition never died, it just added โhearts not partsโ to offend even more people.